Thank you for the kind thoughts, but I'm aiming for not-pregnant.

My Mom's menopause wasn't awful, but she had these brutal hot flashes. I don't think that's an indication of what's going to happen to me, though, because she was forced into menopause by a medication she was on. So I'm mostly looking forward to menopause... in twenty to thirty years.

The occasional bleeding will probably make me a little crazy, though, because when it doesn't happen, I'll be worrying about surprise!not-menopause-after-all-baby. That's just how I am.