I agree that tomboys are sexy. Amongst other things, I think competency is sexy.

I don't think I am incompetent, and my skills have value in my life (in my job, for example), but I don't have the kind of skills that will give me independent.

I want to learn how to fix things, grow things, make things.

A lot of those people who are able to do these things are tomboys. That's pretty sexy!